On New Year's, Christmastide, birthdays, and just when dreaming, we make a lot of all sorts of wishes for ourselves. Big and small. Realistic, not very realistic and “not very realistic”... And, of course, we all want these wishes to come true. Even the most unrealistic... It turns out that this is possible. Basically…
Well, the easiest way to make wishes for the New Year is during the chimes. True, you can’t think of much at these moments, and by this time many people had already drunk a fair amount. So very strange, if you look at it with a sober head, wishes come true.
So, wishes exist for this reason, to come true. You just need to guess correctly. First, the general rules.
1. Never use the particle “not” when formulating a desire. For example: the desire “I don’t want to be fat!” It’s better to formulate this way: “I wish you to be slim, blooming, attractive and charming!” Something from this set will definitely come true!
2. A very important point is to think about how this desire will be realized. For example: “I want to go on a round-the-world cruise.” But you can also work as a cleaner on an ocean liner! Therefore, it is better to formulate the desire like this: - I want to go on a river cruise to relax and... - complete the phrase with other details. The more there are, the better!
3. Having made a wish, you must firmly and unconditionally believe that it will come true. There should be no doubt about this! Just make a wish and let go of it for a while. Let the energy of desire “cook” in your subconscious.
4. It is necessary to visualize the result as often and completely as possible, that is, to present the results of what has already been accomplished. For example, if you want a luxurious apartment, imagine not only the interior, but also how you will celebrate a housewarming, how to watch TV in the living room, how to have dinner in the dining room, etc.
5. It is necessary to pronounce affirmative sentences silently or out loud (out loud better) as often as possible. These statements are especially effective in the evening before bed and in the morning, while still half asleep. The mind at this time is still (or already) dormant, and the words seem to be imprinted into the subconscious. In this case, all actions should be only in the present tense: “I have (do) this and that.”
6. Make yourself a symbol of a fulfilled desire. For example, a coin. And carry it with you until your wish comes true.
7. Make a plan to achieve what you want. Many people neglect this simple rule. But what’s easier: to write or even just imagine all the steps necessary to implement your plan!
But the process of wishing to effectively (quickly and easily) obtain a result will be different for all people. Let's turn to classical Western astrology.
So... If your zodiac sign is:
. Aries, Leo or Sagittarius- your main assistant is fire. Choose a time at dusk when no one will disturb you. Light a candle. Make a wish while looking into the candle fire. Write it down on paper. If you want to get rid of something, burn your notes immediately. If you want to purchase something, read your entry often by candlelight. And when your wish comes true, you can burn this paper with gratitude to the Higher Powers.
. Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces- your main assistant is water. On the shore of a pond, looking at the water, you need to make a wish. Write it down on paper. Then make a boat out of the note and set it sailing. It is better to be in the boat or on the bridge at this moment.
. Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn- your main helpers are money and food! You need to make one wish at a time and carry the treasured coin in your pocket until this wish comes true. Do not lend money to anyone at this time! When making a wish, it is good to chew a few grapes or chewing marmalade.
. Gemini, Libra or Aquarius- your main assistants are a cheerful company and... clouds. Invite as many of your friends as possible and make a wish during a noisy party. Or desires. You can make several wishes at once. You can also make wishes while walking, looking at the clouds.
These are the simple rules. I hope they make your life a lot easier. Good luck!
We are all looking forward to New Year's Eve so that we can quickly say goodbye to all the problems and failures of the past and celebrate the New Year in an optimistic mood. Making wishes on this magical night is perhaps the most common ritual that many people use. If you want to know how to make a wish for the New Year so that it is guaranteed to come true, be sure to read our article.
If you want to take advantage of the energy of the New Year 2017 to make your deepest wishes come true, take into account the features of the coming year.
You can ask the Fire Cockerel to make your wildest but positive desires come true. It is important that your desire benefits not only you personally, but also the world around you. The Cockerel loves such requests very much and fulfills them quite quickly, because by his nature he is a benevolent creature and highly values ambition and good-naturedness in thoughts and desires.
The process of making a wish itself should take place in a harmonious atmosphere; it is important to be in the most complacent mood. First, ask for happiness for everyone around you and only then concentrate on your own interests - then the Cockerel will become your best assistant and ally, since he is interested in positive changes.
Method 1. Ritual with champagne. It is classic because it has been used for a very long time. You will need to write down your wish on a piece of paper, roll it up into a tube, and when the clock starts striking 12, set it on fire, throw the ashes into a glass of sparkling wine and drink in one gulp.
Method 2. Letter to Santa Claus. Do you think only children turn to the kind, gray-haired wizard for help? But no - you can write your deepest desires yourself, then put the piece of paper in a red concert and send it under the New Year tree. It is important to remember your wishes every day, and when the tree is removed, hide the leaf in a secluded place. You won’t even notice how quickly the Universe realizes your plans!
Method 3. 12 wishes to choose from. If you have not one, but several wishes, you should write them all down on a piece of paper (their number must be at least 12), and send the sheets of paper under your pillow on New Year’s Eve. On the morning of January 1, pull out any of them at random - the wish written on it will certainly come true in the New Year!
Knowing so many ways to make a New Year's wish and tips on how to effectively fulfill them, you can definitely choose the one that suits you most. We wish you a lot of happiness, love, positive moments in the New Year and that all your sincere and kind wishes will certainly become reality!
How to make a wish for the New Year so that it comes true
People have been making wishes for a long time. Making a wish on New Year's Eve occupies a special place in such rituals. Apparently, the enormous power of universal joy and fun helps to convey desires to places where something will influence their fulfillment.
Perhaps one of the most famous, yet effective ways of making a fortune is this. You need to write a wish on a piece of paper and read it as the chimes strike, burn it, shake the ashes into a glass of champagne and drink it.
The problem is that in those very last minutes it is very difficult to gather your thoughts amidst the general noise, jokes and laughter. Maybe, if you really want it, you’ll still be able to make the desired wish, that’s why it’s cherished. Moreover, rumor claims that the method works.
They also make a wish on the New Year tree. In addition to the beautiful Christmas tree, you will need a bouquet of flowers, ideally donated by someone. Carefully sorting through the petals, they think about their cherished desires. Exactly one hour before midnight, you need to pick exactly three petals, whisper a wish, throw them into a glass and hide them under the tree. When the clock strikes, they take out a glass and drink together with everyone.
You can make a wish on a sparkler or candle. The Yellow Dog will love candles and lights on New Year's Eve, so you can count on her patronage. A wish should be whispered over the fire.
How to make a wish for the New Year 2018 so that it comes true
The most important thing for a wish to come true is to formulate it correctly. There should be no negativity in it, no particles of “not”, only positivity. The desire should sound without the words “I want”, because it has already come true: you already want a car or get married.
It is very important to express your dream correctly. Here is a dream come true: a large, bright apartment, but together with my mother-in-law or other relatives.
The dream must be real. Having an average income, you should not dream of becoming a millionaire, because this is unlikely to come true. It is more realistic to wish for a promotion at work, which will lead to improved well-being. But, in this case, you need to try to fulfill your desire. Because in many ways its implementation depends on the person himself, and before New Year’s Eve it will help bring order to thoughts and desires. And if some wish is not fulfilled, then there is a reason for it: fate has prepared something else, even better. It is only important to consider your chance in time and do the right thing.
Nothing controls our heart as much as belief in miracles. On New Year's Eve, even the most inveterate skeptics are transformed.
Someone rustles a bill in their pocket, trying to catch a wave of financial well-being, someone stirs paper ashes in a glass, and someone kisses a stranger, just so as not to be left alone. Adults for an instant turn into real children, because they believe that New Year’s Eve is special, it will definitely bring success and fulfillment of desires! And even though there are no Snow Maidens, and Santa Claus’s costume has not fit at the waist for a long time, the universe is multifaceted, it fulfills not only children’s dreams.
How to make a wish for the New Year and have it come true? We have collected for you 7 of the simplest and most effective methods that will not leave anyone indifferent. But first, let’s clarify the rules for formulating goals so that they will definitely please you in the coming year.
When you say it to yourself or write a wish on a piece of paper, use the present tense form: not “I want,” but “I got it” or “I already have it.”
Talk about your dream in an affirmative form, without any “no” particles: instead of “I don’t want to be alone anymore” or “I don’t want to get sick,” it is better to use a positive form in the vein of “I am desired and loved,” “my body is healthy.”
When thinking about your cherished desire, concentrate not on the visual picture, but on the emotions of owning your dream. Do you want a new home? Don’t imagine it to the smallest detail, it’s better to imagine yourself inside this house, feel with your skin that it is yours, that you are happy in it.
Your desire should concern only you; you cannot tie your dreams to the actions and actions of other people. What will come true is what depends on you, and not your friends or bosses. You are unable to influence the will and feelings of strangers.
1. Red envelope
If you like to keep a personal diary, you have good literary inclinations, a sure way to achieve your desired goals in the new year is to write a letter of wishes to yourself in the future. To do this, half an hour before the start of the holiday, try to be alone with a pen and paper. Answer the questions: how do you see yourself in the new year, what do you look like, what do you do, who surrounds you, how do you feel? Describe everything in as much detail as possible, then put it in a red envelope, hide it in your pocket and drink champagne with everyone! The red color helps to attract the energy of good luck, and everything written will definitely come true if your intentions were serious.
2. Surprise boxes
Sincere generosity towards others always returns a hundredfold! The more we give, the more we receive in the end - these are the laws of the universe. This method of making wishes takes this principle as a basis. So, prepare 12 surprise boxes in advance. You can put anything inside - candies, nuts, New Year's balls, handkerchiefs and even perfume, it all depends on your financial status. When the chimes strike 12 times, go outside and hand out boxes to the first people you meet with wishes for happiness in the new year. Just don’t forget to think about your desire! Very soon the world will respond with the same generosity, the main thing is to do everything with a pure heart.
3. Ashes in champagne
To help your dream come true, prepare in advance thin strips of paper, a pen and light a candle. When there is a minute left until the New Year, and everyone around you is keeping a second-by-second account, quickly write a wish, so that you can then burn the leaf and drink it with sparkling champagne. This method is phenomenally truthful and works flawlessly, the main thing is to clearly formulate the goal and be prepared for unforeseen consequences. After all, sometimes desires come true in a completely different way than we imagined.
4. Collage drawing
For lovers of the visual component, a suitable method for making a wish for the New Year is to draw a dream picture with your own hands or make a collage of wishes from photographs. So, an hour before the striking of the holiday chimes, hand out a piece of paper to everyone who wants it, lay out the paints and pencils, and then start visualizing your dream on paper. At this moment, think only about the desire and emotions about its fulfillment. Roll the finished drawing into a tube, wrap it with a satin ribbon and hang it on a pine branch. At 12 o'clock drink to your wish, it will definitely come true!
5. 12 grapes
At all times and in all cultures, grapes have been a symbol of fertility, health and wealth. That is why in Italy they decided to combine the myth of his divine origin with the New Year celebration. In order for the goal to find material embodiment, with each strike of the clock you need to have time to eat a grape, thinking about your desire. Sparkling wine will consolidate the magical effect of the ancient ritual, the universe will definitely hear you.
6. Magic toy
For this ritual, it is best to make a New Year's toy with your own hands in order to invest your energy in the holiday decoration. It could be a snowflake, a painted pine cone, a snowman made of cotton wool, or even an old Christmas tree ball remade in a new way. Hide a note with your wish inside or next to the toy, then hang the decoration back on the tree. On the night of January 1, repeat your wish to yourself once again - and it will definitely come true!
7. Romantic kiss
This method of making wishes is perfect for lovers or married couples who celebrate a holiday in the company of friends and have one wish for two. For example, having a baby, buying a house or going on a romantic trip. So, with the onset of the festive countdown, the lights in the room turn off, lovers need to have time to find each other in order to merge in a kiss. If they succeed, they will succeed!
Don't be afraid to dream, don't be afraid to fight - and even the most incredible goals will find you in the new year. The universe is abundant and therefore on your side. Have patience, think positively, don't be afraid to give. With coming!
The ashes of a treasured piece of paper in a glass of champagne, 12 white grapes swallowed while the clock strikes, a coin under the tablecloth as a symbol of wealth, or new red underwear as a guarantee of hot sex - you may have already done all this, more than once. If it seems to you that traditional signs do not work, it is better to choose a time and perform your own ritual... not forgetting the rules of Feng Shui and the advice of psychologists.
Why do some dreams come true and others don't? Maybe there is simply not enough room for them in your life? It’s better to start preparing New Year’s wishes by saying goodbye to the past. Moreover, you need to part with him both in word and in deed.
It’s not enough to simply brush off the dust and remove from the surface everything that is out of place. As you walk through the house, carefully look around to notice and throw away everything that is broken, old and unnecessary without regret. Look into your closets and get rid of at least those items or pairs of shoes that you have never worn in the previous 12 months. In general, all items from the “what if you need it” category are solid candidates for discarding. The Chinese or Feng Shui experts would say that such things accumulate stagnant, blocking energy. The Italian New Year's tradition is based on approximately the same logic: on December 31, not only clothes, but sometimes even old furniture fly from windows and balconies. The meaning of “sorting out the rubble” is to clear the space around of what is pulling into the past and make room for something new in your own life.
Think about what some of the things that you are getting rid of may be associated with for you: old misconceptions, old habits, empty affairs, outdated connections, wrong relationships - everything that you want to leave in the past. If you are outside the city or have a fireplace in the house, it is good to throw several of the most “charged” symbolic objects into the fire: for example, a crumpled cigarette pack, a receipt from an unnecessary purchase, a note from an unpleasant person...
Don't forget to clean your desktop, remove all junk from your mail, update your diaries and notebooks.
In the days remaining until the New Year, try to complete at least one (even small) task, fulfill a promise to someone, or repay a debt. Listen to yourself and notice how a new feeling of lightness grows inside.
It is customary to thank the passing year by remembering all the good things. This ritual has an important psychological meaning. Over the past 12 months, you have changed, and your desires have changed with you (even if it is not obvious at first glance). By analyzing your feelings and assessing events, you can form a vector of movement for the better. To do this, you can use NLP techniques. Take 2 sheets of paper and a pen, find a few free minutes and try to honestly answer the following questions.
Remember: what events happened in your life over the past year?
Which ones were the most joyful - and why?
Which ones are the most unpleasant and why?
Write down the three most important themes that have defined the past year.
Which of the following do you NOT want to face in the new year?
What have you achieved that you are most proud of?
What do you think others underestimated?
What is your biggest regret that happened this year?
What did you wish for that did not come true?
How do you feel the general mood of the passing year? Notice both positive and negative emotions.
Looking back, what did you miss most in the past year? (For example: time, money, support, determination, etc.)
If something happened again, what would you do differently?
What has this year taught you, what lessons will you remember?
Name at least three things for which you are grateful to other people, the Universe, and life itself.
Name at least three things you are grateful to yourself for.
Save the piece of paper with the second list (“Conclusions”), and burn the first, still listening carefully to the feeling of lightness that continues to grow inside. By celebrating positive changes, you start the movement of time.
If the previous stages of work have been completed correctly, you are ready to name your desires. It is important to formulate them specifically, with details and your own feelings: imagine exactly what you feel when they become a reality.
Pay attention to what or who your desire is directed at: you personally; on your relationships with people; globally on your role in this life or place in the Universe.
Try to place the main emphasis not on external circumstances (for example, “I want to meet the ideal man”), but on your own role and quality in this situation (“I want to be a happy, loved and loving woman”).
Eliminate any negations and the “not” particle: for example, instead of “I want to lose 10 kg,” it is better to say “It’s easy for me, I’m at the optimal weight and in great shape”; instead of “I don’t need anything” - “I always have enough money for what is important to me.”
Our words have powerful energy: if the desire is correctly formulated and written down, it becomes a goal, and the Universe immediately begins to implement it. Place the piece of paper with your wishes in an envelope and hide it in a secluded place. If in the process of work your imagination has created some kind of symbolic image, try to draw it - carefully, in colors, with love. Roll this piece of paper into a roll, tie it with a ribbon and hang it on the New Year tree: after the holidays it will also need to be removed in order to be unrolled next December.
Finally, to consolidate the result, on the first day (or even the first night) of the new year, you can perform the “Ritual of Eight Oranges.” It is believed that these solar fruits embody the energy of prosperity and joy of life, and the number “8” symbolizes prosperity according to Feng Shui. When entering the house, throw them onto the floor over the threshold so that they roll throughout all rooms except the bathroom and toilet. While rolling the oranges, sincerely and out loud wish yourself all the best - happiness, love, success, wealth, health, etc. During the first week of the New Year, give these fruits to your guests or neighbors. But most importantly, catch the feeling of the holiday and carry it into the future: your dreams are already beginning to come true!
